20 Alphabet Bridal Shower Ideas that Celebrate the Bride-to-Be (2024)

Spell out your love for the woman of the hour with these details.

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If you've just volunteered or been chosen to host your best friend's or daughter's upcoming bridal shower, you're probably already consider a long list of possible themes. While all bridal shower themes are worth considering—and we'll always be fans of classic French-inspired celebrations and tea parties—we think you should be open to more unexpected forms of inspiration. The theme to help you do just that? An alphabet bridal shower.

These showers incorporate letters in almost any way you can think of. In addition to giving guests a theme to shop for gifts around (each attendee would be assigned a letter, and would then gift the bride-to-be a present that matches), it'll help you get creative with your decorations. From monograms and balloons to banners that spell out witty phrases, an alphabet shower is the perfect party theme to celebrate not only the woman of the hour, but also her new name and soon-to-be-married status. Take this sweet display, for instance—the bride-to-be and her closest friends held up balloons that spelled out "bride" as a nod to her impending nuptials. While these inflatable letters make for a great photo op, they can also be used as a decoration throughout your celebration.

To inspire you, we've assembled some of the most creative ways hosts have used letters at this particular pre-wedding event. The best part? The following details come in all shapes in sizes. Whether it's a floral installation over your food bar or small dessert offerings like cookies inspired by Scrabble, you'll certainly find an idea that will jumpstart your bridal shower planning. We've even included some alphabet-themed bridal shower gift ideas that will keep the celebration going long after the party ends.

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Coffee Art

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Incorporate the first letters of the bride and groom's first names in unexpected ways. The woman of the hour was certainly impressed when she saw this Cappuccino Man coffee art.

See more creative ways to serve coffee here

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Hugs and Kisses

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Xs and Os are a classic symbol of love to display in various parts of your shower. Lauren Smith (who planned, photographed, and styled this event for her sister!) placed the two letters over the shower's snack and drink bar.

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Scrabble Cookies

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Spell out "love" with Scrabble tile-shaped cookies like these treats from Nutmeg Bake Shop.

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Mrs. Balloons

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The bride-to-be will want to show off her new title as soon as possible. Do just that by decorating with "M-R-S" balloons (the host got these from Target!).

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Monogrammed

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Gift guests a lasting reminder of the bride's new name. Here, Penmagic Designs created a custom monogrammed crest that Eventfully Planned used to decorate the party's maple syrup favors.

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Tote Bag

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Favors are always welcome at bridal showers—especially when attendees can actually use them. That's why Emily Claire Events packed re-useable (and monogrammed!) tote bags with Champagne, nail polish, lotion, and matches for these lucky invitees.

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Initialed Napkins

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Serve up the guest of honor's signature co*cktail alongside personalized co*cktail napkins emblazoned with the happy couple's initials.

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Creative Drink Stirrer

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Get inspired by the bride's new last name and create a witty saying for your drink stirrers. These "Simon says Hill" swizzle sticks by Delovely Details spruced up these Champagne flutes.

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Witty Saying

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Dress up your shower's bar with a witty quote that will certainly entertain guests. These balloons noted exactly what drink was being served.

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Monogrammed Macarons

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Include the bride-to-be's new moniker in every inch of her bridal shower—even on the desserts. Dana's Bakery created these custom macarons that were almost too pretty to eat.

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Citrus-Themed

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Decorations are that much more thoughtful when they play up the bridal shower's theme. Andressa Hara of Twinkle Twinkle Little Party dreamed up this "main squeeze" banner for a citrus-inspired party.

Find more citrus inspiration here

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Crest Cookies

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If possible, infuse elements of your bride's wedding stationery suite into her shower. Sogi's Honey Bakeshop recreated this duos' Happy Menocal monogram, which featured their initials, on tasty scallop-edged cookies.

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Useful Keepsakes

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To make favors even more special for your guests, personalize them with their own initials. These small canvas cases—which turned into handy travel pouches—were made for each guest.

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Initialed Décor

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This hanging monogrammed banner is perfect for customizing your shower's bar area or dessert table.

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3-D Crest

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Give the bride her own personal dessert marked with her initials. Juniper Cakery added a three-dimensional crest to this hand-painted confection.

Find more crest ideas here

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Last Initial

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Garnish the drink of the day with custom swizzle sticks featuring the bride's new last initial.

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Embroidered Napkins

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Elevate your bridal shower's place setting with embroidered, monogrammed napkins, like these from Sarah Drake Design.

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Chair Banner

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Mark the women of the hour's spot at the table with a banner that spells out "B-R-I-D-E."

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Mugs

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If you're throwing a tea party shower, or the bride-to-be is a coffee lover, be sure to pass around personalized mugs. These were purchased from World Market and certainly came in handy during and after the celebration.

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20 Alphabet Bridal Shower Ideas that Celebrate the Bride-to-Be (2024)

FAQs

What is the bridal shower for the bride-to-be? ›

A bridal shower is a party usually held for the bride-to-be in the months leading up to her wedding. It's an opportunity for her close friends and family to celebrate her upcoming nuptials and to help her get excited for the big day.

How do I make my bride feel special at the bridal shower? ›

For example, you could serve up her favorite foods and signature drink, decorate in (or wear) her favorite color or reference a film or book she loves in the theme and décor. It's a fun way to make the bride feel extra special on her big day. Add personal details. The guests should feel special too.

What is the caption for the bride-to-be? ›

Bridal Shower Instagram Captions for a Bridesmaid or Guest

"A picture-perfect day for our picture-perfect bride." "Showering our beautiful bride-to-be." "Best wishes to you as you get ready to say 'I do!'" "May your marriage be as filled with love and happiness as this special day was."

Who pays for bridal shower for bride? ›

In short, the host is the one who pays for the bridal shower—or at least some of it. Most commonly, this is the maid of honor, but the couple's relatives, friends or even the to-be-weds themselves can all pitch in to cover the cost of the wedding shower.

Does the mother of the bride give a bridal shower? ›

Answer: While your grandmother is correct that historically the mother of the bride did not host a bridal shower, it's one of those rules of etiquette that has fallen away.

Does the mother of the bride do a shower? ›

Traditionally, the mother of the bride doesn't host the bridal shower (the maid of honor typically assumes the chief shower-planning role), however, your daughter will likely want you to be a part of the celebration.

What can I do at my bridal shower instead of games? ›

Here, we spoke with wedding planning experts on the latest-and-greatest bridal shower activities and fun bridal shower games:
  • Create a signature co*cktail during the bridal shower. ...
  • Create a sweet memory book for the bride-to-be. ...
  • Play wedding traditions trivia… ...
  • ...or couples trivia. ...
  • Collect date night ideas.
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How do you make a bridal shower not boring? ›

Go Somewhere Unique. You're not obligated to sit on the back patio or stake out your parents' country club. Head to a pasta-making class, boozy art class, vineyard, brewery, salon, beach or gorgeous restaurant to spice things up and make your shower feel extra special (and worth the trip for any out-of-town friends).

How do you make the bride feel special as a bridesmaid? ›

Make your friend a playlist for the morning of her wedding; create a book for her with words of wisdom, recipes and stories from the women in her life; go with her to a perfumery and concoct a signature scent for her wedding day; or make a survival kit with everything you could need for a wedding day mishap.

What is a special quote for a bride? ›

Here are emotional quotes for brides! 3. In her eyes, you'll find a universe of dreams. She's not just a bride; she's a love story waiting to be written.

What is bridal shower quotes? ›

Bridal Shower Captions for Guests
  • Showering you with nothing but the best.
  • After the "Yes," before the "I do," happy shower to you!
  • Celebrated love today, can't wait for the big day.
  • We've only been talking about this day for X years.
  • Showered this beauty with love today.
  • Happy shower.
Sep 21, 2023

What do you say in a bridal shower post? ›

Examples
  • “So happy for you.”
  • “With warmest wishes for the bride-to-be…”
  • “What a busy and exciting time! ...
  • “Please don't mind my happy tears. ...
  • “Wishing you all the best today, on your wedding day, and in your life together.”
  • “Blessings to you as you prepare to say I do.”
  • “Just wanted to shower you with some happy wishes!”
Jul 1, 2019

What does mother in law give at bridal shower? ›

Consider heirloom-worthy serveware or a handmade book featuring your family's secret recipes. Alternatively, opt for items she'll likely need for the wedding. Think: a luxurious getting-ready robe, something blue or travel essentials for the honeymoon.

Who should not host a bridal shower? ›

Traditional etiquette dictates that the maid of honor—not the mother of the bride—should host the shower.

What is a normal budget for a bridal shower? ›

That works out at $300 to $800 for a 20-person party but can go as high as $150 per person or $3,000 for a 20-person shower. Based on these estimates and an average bridal shower guest list of 35-50 people, a reasonable budget for a bridal shower is between $350 and $7,500.

What is usually done in a bridal shower? ›

During a bridal shower, guests come together to celebrate the bride and have some fun. The event usually includes activities, games, and sometimes even a theme. Essentially, it's an opportunity for the bride's closest friends and family to show their support and celebrate as she embarks on her journey to marriage.

Does the bride bring anything to the bridal shower? ›

Throwing a bridal shower is an especially generous act on part of your family and friends. While a handwritten thank-you note is acceptable, the bride-to-be may want to give a gift to the host—for example, tickets to a show or a gift box full of small luxuries.

Who normally comes to a bridal shower? ›

The bridal party, including the maid of honor and bridesmaids generally make the top of the guest list, followed by immediate family members from both sides of the aisle. If the bride welcomes children at her shower, guests may also include nieces, the flower girl and junior bridesmaids.

When should a bride have her bridal shower? ›

Typically, showers are held two to six months prior to the wedding. But this timeline can be changed if there are other circ*mstances to consider, like a guest who is important to the bride/groom will already be in town.

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