Celebrating a Q and U Wedding in Kindergarten (2024)

Last week my kindergarten students celebrated a very special event… the Wedding of Q and U! If you are not already familiar with this event, let me fill you in! It is a silly, fanciful, wonderful way to teach students the spelling pattern of “qu” in a way that is truly memorable. The wedding reinforces the idea that every time we write a word with a q in kindergarten, we always follow the q with a u.

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We have celebrated the Q and U wedding for several years, but this time I pulled out all the stops and “Kinder-Crazed” the event! Keep reading to discover creative ideas, inspiration, and printable party accents available for purchase in the Kinder Craze store.

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Just like an actual wedding, our celebration consisted of two parts: a wedding ceremony and a reception. Our wedding ceremony was held in the gym, then we moved down the hall to an extra classroom in my school for the reception. I stayed at school EXTRA late the night before to set everything up. The pennant banners and printable goods are from myQ and U Wedding Party Printables pack. All of the table coverings, lanterns, and napkins are from Party City.

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The large Q and U figures are also available included in the printable pack. I took my image of the bride and groom to a local printing company and had them print two 24×36″ posters of the image. One poster was cut apart to create props for students to hold during the wedding. The other poster was cut apart to create the large party decorations that you see on the table.

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I purchased black and white photo boxes and decorative ribbon at Michaels for the reception gifts. The pink ribbon was hot glued onto each photo box and lid (separately). I also printed and laminated the Q and U figures and hot glued these atop each of the boxes to add a little decorative flair. This created a coordinating set of gift boxes that can be easily opened during the reception and are durable enough to be used for several years.

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I’ll fill you in on more of the reception details later. Let’s get back to the wedding!

Preparing for the Q and U Wedding

Although the wedding is a quick event, we work hard to make it a special event for the Kindergarten students. Invitations are sent home to each students family, informing parents that they are welcome to attend. Four students are selected to have a special role in the event: one bride, one groom, and two flower girls.

A few days before the wedding, the class worked together to create a special “white carpet” just like in a real wedding. We unrolled a long sheet of butcher paper and each child decorated the carpet by writing Q and U with a dot marker. Here you can see the completed carpet as the kindergarten students anxiously await the wedding.

Each student in the class also created a special hat for the event, which can be found in my Q and U Wedding pack on TpT. The girls’ hats were made with white construction paper bands and the boys’ hats used black construction paper. I loved the traditional wedding color scheme of black and white.

Q and U Wedding Ceremony

The moment finally arrived! The bride, groom, and flower girls waited in the hallway while the other students took their seats in the gym.

The bride and groom each carry a large character print down the aisle. I met with someone at my local print shop whohelped me find the perfect paper quality and heavy laminate for the character prints. The bride and groom pictures were secured to yardsticks covered with black and white duct tape. It was important to me that the printed characters not flap around while they were carried. The laminated prints remained tall and rigid during all of the festivities.

The school principal performed the wedding ceremony. It was very short and very sweet.


Once the ceremony was complete, the bride and groom let the wedding guests to the reception!


An Q and U Wedding Reception with Adorable Elegance

Very few young children get to actually attend a wedding and I wanted this reception to seem every bit as special as the real thing. My students mouth’s dropped when they saw the transformation of the formerly bland, empty room into the elegant reception hall for the wedding.

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A gift table was set up in the front of the room. The students gathered in front of the table and sat on the floor while they watched the bride, groom, and two flower girls open the wedding gifts.

Each child opened one box. The boxes contained items beginning with “qu”… a quarter, queen, question mark, and (or course) a quilt. If you don’t have physical objects to place inthe boxes, images for the gifts are included in the Q and U Wedding Printable Pack. Simply print, laminate, and wrap!




A closer view of the treasures at the treasures on the gift table…

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What’s a wedding without cake? After the gifts were opened, it was time to eat!

As you can imagine, I don’t have a lot of spare time for cake-baking. Fancy Cakes from Little Debbie were the perfect treat. Just the right size for my kindergarten students, pretty much mess-free, and (of course) they were fancy!

Little Debbie actually has a product locator on their website. Check to see if Fancy Cakes are available at a store near you!

The students had so much fun at their little reception and their parents enjoyed the sweetness of the experience!

Invitations, bunting, student hats and MORE can be found in my Q and U Wedding Party Printables pack. Check it out in the Kinder Craze store!

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Do you throw celebrate a Q and U wedding at school? I would love to hear how you make the event special in your own classroom!

Celebrating a Q and U Wedding in Kindergarten (2024)

FAQs

What is the purpose of the Q and U wedding? ›

The Q&U Wedding is an annual tradition for CA dating back over ten years. The wedding serves as an interactive grammar lesson. Students are reminded that Q and U work together to make words like quandary and quarrel but that U can stand alone for words like underwear!

What is the script for wedding involving children? ›

us come together as a family - mother, father, child, together from this day on. I promise to love, guide, and respect (child's name) and (spouse's name) as long as we all shall live. pledging your love to your child/children as well, committing to them and to each other to create a family together.

What are the words of welcome for a wedding ceremony? ›

Welcome to the most important day in the lives of [NAME] and [NAME].” “Today is a celebration and we are here to celebrate with [NAME] and [NAME].” “Love has brought [NAME] and [NAME] and everyone in this room together today.”

Are kids allowed wedding Q&A? ›

It's up to the child's parents or guardians to decide. It's a good idea to check with them before making assumptions. Deciding not to invite children is perfectly acceptable. Example invitation wording to make it clear children are not invited: "Adults only, please.

What should I wear to a wedding Q&A? ›

3. What should I wear?
  • “The wedding is casual, so please feel free to wear whatever you'd feel best in!”
  • “The wedding is semi-formal, so we encourage you to wear co*cktail attire [for evening events] / Sunday best [for daytime events].”
  • “The wedding is formal, so we encourage you to wear black tie attire.
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What are the wedding vows for people with children? ›

“[Children's names,] we promise to love and support you, to be there for you, to listen to you and respect you, to cherish and guide you, to be there when you need us, and to give you love always.” “I promise to always to treat you with love and respect.

How do you say only some kids at a wedding? ›

Only certain children will be coming:
  1. Due to guest number restrictions, we are only able to extend the invite to the children of close family/or our wedding party.
  2. We are only able to accommodate the children of our wedding party.

Do you invite kids to a wedding? ›

There are no hard and fast rules, and the choice ultimately comes down to personal preference. If you want to invite children to your wedding, then have them. If you would prefer an adults only celebration, that's fine too. Remember, this is your big day and it's your preferences that matter.

Who gives the official welcome at a wedding? ›

Traditionally, the host was the bride's family, as they were paying for the wedding. Therefore, the father of the bride would give the wedding welcome speech. However, many modern weddings are paid for by both families and the couple, meaning there are multiple hosts.

What is a short opening prayer for wedding? ›

God, as you join us today, we ask for your blessings upon this couple as they unite in marriage. Let all their days together be happy and all their words to each other be sweet. Though their paths are intertwined, let them be aware of each other's separateness.

What is an example of a short wedding speech? ›

Ladies and Gentlemen, let's all raise a glass to the happy couple on this joyous occasion. To the bride and groom, may your love continue to grow and bring you happiness for the rest of your lives. And may you always find humor in the little things and never forget the reason you fell in love in the first place.

What is the no kids rule at weddings? ›

The no-kids rule works best when the majority of the families are local, which means that parents can leave their children with familiar babysitters for the entire day or drop them off between the ceremony and reception, adds Karen Kaforey, a wedding planner in Nashville.

How are kids counted at weddings? ›

Again it does not matter what role or capacity people play in the wedding, their head still counts towards that capacity restrictions. Children are sometimes a little more flexible. Generally, if it is an infant or small child will not be included in the guest count if they will be sitting in a parents lap.

How do you include step children in vows? ›

When your fiancé has kids, you are saying "I do" to them, as well. So, prior to exchanging your vows with your spouse at the altar, consider sharing a similar moment with them, too. Promise to cherish, love, and protect your future stepchildren; it will mean the world to them and show you're committed to them as well.

What is the purpose of the wedding and why it happens? ›

A wedding ceremony's prime function is to provide the bride and groom an opportunity to make promises to each other. Those promises form the basis of their marriage and give the officiating clergy the right to pronounce them man and wife.

What is the explanation of the Orthodox wedding ceremony? ›

The Sacrament of Marriage in the Eastern Orthodox Church derives from the belief that marriage exists from God's creation of the first man and the first woman. As such, the couple does not exchange vows, but is united by the grace of God. The marriage ceremony is steeped in ritual and symbolism.

What is the purpose statement of a wedding? ›

Wedding Mission Statement Examples

The day should be all about celebrating our love to the fullest with our favorite group of people. We want the planning process to be stress-free, and to be truly present in each moment.” “We want our wedding day to authentically reflect who we are as a couple.

What is the purpose of the wedding party? ›

A wedding party is a group of people chosen by the couple to support and celebrate them throughout their journey from engagement to marriage.

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